fixed

        void ReadEventHandler(int pos,const int tid,void *args) {

            con *rcon = (con*)_Events[pos].data.ptr;

            std::shared_ptr<char[]> buf( new char[BLOCKSIZE], []( char *p ){ delete [] p; });

            try{

                std::shared_ptr<char[]> buf( new char[BLOCKSIZE], []( char *p ){ delete [] p; });

                size_t rcvsize = _ServerSocket->recvData(rcon->csock, buf.get(), BLOCKSIZE);

                rcon->lasteventime = time(nullptr);

                    std::cerr << e.what() << std::endl;

                }

            }

            goto EVENTLOOP;

        }

    };