rtlwifi: btcoex: 21a 1ant: coex table and tdma settings for softap mode

Monitor if the wifi is softap mode, and set the tdma and coex table
accordingly.

Signed-off-by: Yan-Hsuan Chuang <yhchuang@realtek.com>
Signed-off-by: Larry Finger <Larry.Finger@lwfinger.net>
Cc: Pkshih <pkshih@realtek.com>
Cc: Birming Chiu <birming@realtek.com>
Cc: Shaofu <shaofu@realtek.com>
Cc: Steven Ting <steventing@realtek.com>
Signed-off-by: Kalle Valo <kvalo@codeaurora.org>