staging/rdma/hfi1: Remove driver specific members from hfi1 qp type

In preparation for moving the queue pair data structure to rdmavt the
members of the driver specific queue pairs which are not common need to be
pushed off to a private driver structure. This structure will be available
in the queue pair once moved to rdmavt as a void pointer. This patch while
not adding a lot of value in and of itself is a prerequisite to move the
queue pair out of the drivers and into rdmavt.

The driver specific, private queue pair data structure should condense as
more of the send side code moves to rdmavt.

Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>