drm/dp_mst: Fix flushing the delayed port/mstb destroy work

Atm, a pending delayed destroy work during module removal will be
canceled, leaving behind MST ports, mstbs. Fix this by using a dedicated
workqueue which will be drained of requeued items as well when
destroying it.

v2:
- Check if wq is NULL before calling destroy_workqueue().

Cc: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Cc: Stanislav Lisovskiy <stanislav.lisovskiy@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Stanislav Lisovskiy <stanislav.lisovskiy@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20200610134704.25270-1-imre.deak@intel.com