fs: dlm: define max send buffer

This patch will set the maximum transmit buffer size for rcom messages
with "names" to 4096 bytes. It's a leftover change of
commit 4798cbbf ("fs: dlm: rework receive handling"). Fact is that we
cannot allocate a contiguous transmit buffer length above of 4096 bytes.
It seems at some places the upper layer protocol will calculate according
to dlm_config.ci_buffer_size the possible payload of a dlm recovery
message. As compiler setting we will use now the maximum possible
message which dlm can send out. Commit 4e192ee6 ("fs: dlm: disallow
buffer size below default") disallow a buffer setting smaller than the
4096 bytes and above 4096 bytes is definitely wrong because we will then
write out of buffer space as we cannot allocate a contiguous buffer above
4096 bytes. The ci_buffer_size is still there to define the possible
maximum receive buffer size of a recvmsg() which should be at least the
maximum possible dlm message size.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>