[media] media: lirc_dev: merge struct irctl into struct lirc_dev

The use of two separate structs (lirc_dev aka lirc_driver and irctl) makes
it much harder to follow the proper lifetime of the various structs and
necessitates hacks such as keeping a copy of struct lirc_dev inside
struct irctl.

Merging the two structs means that lirc_dev can properly manage the
lifetime of the resulting struct and simplifies the code at the same time.

[mchehab@s-opensource.com: fix merge conflict]
Signed-off-by: David Härdeman <david@hardeman.nu>
Signed-off-by: Sean Young <sean@mess.org>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@osg.samsung.com>