xfs: standardize ondisk to incore conversion for rmap btrees

Create a xfs_rmap_check_irec function to detect corruption in btree
records.  Fix all xfs_rmap_btrec_to_irec callsites to call the new
helper and bubble up corruption reports.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>