btrfs: add function to create and return an ordered extent

Currently, btrfs_add_ordered_extent allocates a new ordered extent, adds
it to the rb_tree, but doesn't return a referenced pointer to the
caller. There are cases where it is useful for the creator of a new
ordered_extent to hang on to such a pointer, so add a new function
btrfs_alloc_ordered_extent which is the same as
btrfs_add_ordered_extent, except it takes an additional reference count
and returns a pointer to the ordered_extent. Implement
btrfs_add_ordered_extent as btrfs_alloc_ordered_extent followed by
dropping the new reference and handling the IS_ERR case.

The type of flags in btrfs_alloc_ordered_extent and
btrfs_add_ordered_extent is changed from unsigned int to unsigned long
so it's unified with the other ordered extent functions.

Reviewed-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Naohiro Aota <naohiro.aota@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Tested-by: Johannes Thumshirn <johannes.thumshirn@wdc.com>
Signed-off-by: Boris Burkov <boris@bur.io>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>