quota: Rename vfs_load_quota_inode() to dquot_load_quota_inode()

Rename vfs_load_quota_inode() to dquot_load_quota_inode() to be
consistent with naming of other functions used for enabling quota
accounting from filesystems. Also export the function and add some
sanity checks to assure filesystems are calling the function properly.

Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>