IB/qib: Use rdmavt send and receive flags

Use the definitions of the s_flags and r_flags which are now in rdmavt.

Reviewed-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Harish Chegondi <harish.chegondi@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>