IB/rdmavt: Add R and S flags for queue pairs

Use the flags originally provided for hfi1 in the rdmavt driver. These will
be made available to drivers in the qp header file.

Reviewed-by: Harish Chegondi <harish.chegondi@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>