NFS: Don't request readdirplus when revalidation was forced

If the revalidation was forced, due to the presence of a LOOKUP_EXCL or
a LOOKUP_REVAL flag, then readdirplus won't help. It also can't help
when we're doing a path component lookup.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>