xfs: error out if trying to add attrs and anextents > 0

We shouldn't assert if somehow we end up trying to add an attr fork to
an inode that apparently already has attr extents because this is an
indication of on-disk corruption.  Instead, return an error code to
userspace.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>