staging/rdma/hfi1: Use address handle in rdmavt and remove from hfi1

Original patch from Kamal Heib <kamalh@mellanox.com>, split
apart from original and modified to accomodate recent changes
in rdmavt.

Remove AH from hfi1 and use rdmavt version.

Signed-off-by: Kamal Heib <kamalh@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>