[DLM] compat patch

Here's a patch which add 32/64 bit compat to the DLM IOs and tidies the
structures for alignment.

As it causes an ABI change I had few qualms about adding the extra flag for
"is64bit" as it simply uses a byte that would have been padding.

Cc: David Woodhouse <dwmw2@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Patrick Caulfield <pcaulfie@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Steven Whitehouse <swhiteho@redhat.com>