xfs: use ->t_dfops for attr set/remove operations

Attach the local dfops to the transaction allocated for xattr add
and remove operations. Add an earlier initialization in
xfs_attr_remove() to ensure the structure is valid if it remains
unused at transaction commit time.

Signed-off-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>