md/raid5: don't allow replacement while reshape is in progress

If reshape is interrupted(for example, echo frozen to sync_action), then
rdev replacement can be set. It's safe because reshape is always prior to
resync in md_check_recovery(). However, if system reboots, then kernel will
complain cannot handle concurrent replacement and reshape and this array
is not able to assemble anymore.

Fix this problem by don't allow replacement until reshape is done.

Reported-by: Peter Neuwirth <reddunur@online.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-raid/e2f96772-bfbc-f43b-6da1-f520e5164536@online.de/


Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230512015610.821290-2-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com