media: v4l2-mem2mem: add lock to protect parameter num_rdy

Getting below error when using KCSAN to check the driver. Adding lock to
protect parameter num_rdy when getting the value with function:
v4l2_m2m_num_src_bufs_ready/v4l2_m2m_num_dst_bufs_ready.

kworker/u16:3: [name:report&]BUG: KCSAN: data-race in v4l2_m2m_buf_queue
kworker/u16:3: [name:report&]

kworker/u16:3: [name:report&]read-write to 0xffffff8105f35b94 of 1 bytes by task 20865 on cpu 7:
kworker/u16:3:  v4l2_m2m_buf_queue+0xd8/0x10c

Signed-off-by: Pina Chen <pina.chen@mediatek.com>
Signed-off-by: Yunfei Dong <yunfei.dong@mediatek.com>
Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hverkuil-cisco@xs4all.nl>