btrfs: add and use helper to assert an inode range is clean

We have four different scenarios where we don't expect to find ordered
extents after locking a file range:

1) During plain fallocate;
2) During hole punching;
3) During zero range;
4) During reflinks (both cloning and deduplication).

This is because in all these cases we follow the pattern:

1) Lock the inode's VFS lock in exclusive mode;

2) Lock the inode's i_mmap_lock in exclusive node, to serialize with
   mmap writes;

3) Flush delalloc in a file range and wait for all ordered extents
   to complete - both done through btrfs_wait_ordered_range();

4) Lock the file range in the inode's io_tree.

So add a helper that asserts that we don't have ordered extents for a
given range. Make the four scenarios listed above use this helper after
locking the respective file range.

Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>