selftests/bpf: Test_progs can read test lists from file

Improve test selection logic when using -a/-b/-d/-t options.
The list of tests to include or exclude can now be read from a file,
specified as @<filename>.

The file contains one name (or wildcard pattern) per line, and
comments beginning with # are ignored.

These options can be passed multiple times to read more than one file.

Signed-off-by: Stephen Veiss <sveiss@meta.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20230427225333.3506052-3-sveiss@meta.com