libceph: add CEPH_OSD_OP_ASSERT_VER support

...and record the user_version in the reply in a new field in
ceph_osd_request, so we can populate the assert_ver appropriately.
Shuffle the fields a bit too so that the new field fits in an
existing hole on x86_64.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Xiubo Li <xiubli@redhat.com>
Reviewed-and-tested-by: Luís Henriques <lhenriques@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Milind Changire <mchangir@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Ilya Dryomov <idryomov@gmail.com>