nvme: add a helper to check ctrl sgl support

For various transports such as fc/tcp/pci it is common to check if
NVMe SGLs are supported or not by the controller.

In this preparation patch we add a helper to avoid the open coding of
such checks in the various transport.

Signed-off-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <chaitanya.kulkarni@wdc.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>