xfs: acquire ->ail_lock from xfs_trans_ail_delete()

Several callers acquire the lock just prior to the call. Callers
that require ->ail_lock for other purposes already check IN_AIL
state and thus don't require the additional shutdown check in the
helper. Push the lock down into xfs_trans_ail_delete(), open code
the instances that still acquire it, and remove the unnecessary ailp
parameter.

Signed-off-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Allison Collins <allison.henderson@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>