nfsd: nfsd4_locku() must reference the lock stateid

Ensure that nfsd4_locku() keeps a reference to the lock stateid
until it is done working with it. Necessary step toward client_mutex
removal.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>