io-wq: improve wq_list_add_tail()

Prepare nodes that we're going to add before actually linking them, it's
always safer and costs us nothing.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/f7e53f0c84c02ed6748c488ed0789b98f8cc6185.1628471125.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>