md: fix data corruption for raid456 when reshape restart while grow up

Currently, if reshape is interrupted, echo "reshape" to sync_action will
restart reshape from scratch, for example:

echo frozen > sync_action
echo reshape > sync_action

This will corrupt data before reshape_position if the array is growing,
fix the problem by continue reshape from reshape_position.

Reported-by: Peter Neuwirth <reddunur@online.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-raid/e2f96772-bfbc-f43b-6da1-f520e5164536@online.de/


Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230512015610.821290-3-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com