netfilter: Remove spurios included of netfilter.h

While testing my netfilter changes I noticed several files where
recompiling unncessarily because they unncessarily included
netfilter.h.

Signed-off-by: "Eric W. Biederman" <ebiederm@xmission.com>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>