RDMA/core: Add a netevent notifier to cma

Add a netevent callback for cma, mainly to catch NETEVENT_NEIGH_UPDATE.

Previously, when a system with failover MAC mechanism change its MAC address
during a CM connection attempt, the RDMA-CM would take a lot of time till
it disconnects and timesout due to the incorrect MAC address.

Now when we get a NETEVENT_NEIGH_UPDATE we check if it is due to a failover
MAC change and if so, we instantly destroy the CM and notify the user in order
to spare the unnecessary waiting for the timeout.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/bb255c9e301cd50b905663b8e73f7f5133d0e4c5.1654601342.git.leonro@nvidia.com


Signed-off-by: Patrisious Haddad <phaddad@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Zhang <markzhang@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>