wifi: iwlwifi: mvm: track station mask for BAIDs

When we have MLO connections, a BAID applies to multiple
firmware stations. Track the station mask instead of the
station ID, getting rid of a few more deflink cases and
preparing for handling link switching for BAIDs.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Gregory Greenman <gregory.greenman@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230416154301.c08523808c34.I719b7bba499648d1495ed3e3a90889d4732ef15d@changeid


Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>