io_uring: add lazy poll_wq activation

Even though io_poll_wq_wake()'s waitqueue_active reuses a barrier we do
for another waitqueue, it's not going to be the case in the future and
so we want to have a fast path for it when the ring has never been
polled.

Move poll_wq wake ups into __io_commit_cqring_flush() using a new flag
called ->poll_activated. The idea behind the flag is to set it when the
ring was polled for the first time. This requires additional sync to not
miss events, which is done here by using task_work for ->task_complete
rings, and by default enabling the flag for all other types of rings.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/060785e8e9137a920b232c0c7f575b131af19cac.1673274244.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>