xfs: refactor dfops init to attach to transaction

Most callers of xfs_defer_init() immediately attach the dfops
structure to a transaction. Add a transaction parameter to eliminate
much of this boilerplate code. This also helps self-document the
fact that many codepaths now expect a dfops pointer implicitly via
xfs_trans->t_dfops.

Signed-off-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>