pnfs: Fix handling of NFS4ERR_OLD_STATEID replies to layoutreturn

If the server tells us that out layoutreturn raced with another layout
update, then we must ensure that the new layout segments are not in use
before we resend with an updated layout stateid.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>