IB/CM: Change sgid to IB GID when handling CM request

ULPs do not understand OPA GIDs and will reject CM requests
if the sgid does not match the local_gid. In order to
fix this behavior we convert the OPA GID back to an IB GID.

Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Don Hiatt <don.hiatt@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>