vdpa: move to drivers/vdpa

We have both vhost and virtio drivers that depend on vdpa.
It's easier to locate it at a top level directory otherwise
we run into issues e.g. if vhost is built-in but virtio
is modular.  Let's just move it up a level.

Reported-by: Randy Dunlap <rdunlap@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>