staging/rdma/hfi1: Allocate send ctxt on device NUMA node

Allocate the user mode send context memory on the numa node which the
device is attached to for better performance.

Reviewed-by: Dean Luick <dean.luick@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mitko Haralanov <mitko.haralanov@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>