powerpc/qspinlock: reduce remote node steal spins

Allow for a reduction in the number of times a CPU from a different
node than the owner can attempt to steal the lock before queueing.
This could bias the transfer behaviour of the lock across the
machine and reduce NUMA crossings.

Signed-off-by: Nicholas Piggin <npiggin@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Ellerman <mpe@ellerman.id.au>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221126095932.1234527-15-npiggin@gmail.com