io_uring: don't expose io_fill_cqe_aux()

Deduplicate some code and add a helper for filling an aux CQE, locking
and notification.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/b7c6557c8f9dc5c4cfb01292116c682a0ff61081.1655455613.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>