xfs: remove ATTR_ALLOC and XFS_DA_OP_ALLOCVAL

Use a NULL args->value as the indicator to lazily allocate a buffer
instead, and let the caller always free args->value instead of
duplicating the cleanup.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Chandan Rajendra <chandanrlinux@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>