nfsd: nfsd4_process_open2() must reference the delegation stateid

Ensure that nfsd4_process_open2() keeps a reference to the delegation
stateid until it is done working with it. Necessary step toward
client_mutex removal.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>