ceph: add refcounting for Fx caps

In future patches we'll be taking and relying on Fx caps. Add proper
refcounting for them.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: "Yan, Zheng" <zyan@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Ilya Dryomov <idryomov@gmail.com>