libbpf: Add opts-based attach/detach/query API for tcx

Extend libbpf attach opts and add a new detach opts API so this can be used
to add/remove fd-based tcx BPF programs. The old-style bpf_prog_detach() and
bpf_prog_detach2() APIs are refactored to reuse the new bpf_prog_detach_opts()
internally.

The bpf_prog_query_opts() API got extended to be able to handle the new
link_ids, link_attach_flags and revision fields.

For concrete usage examples, see the extensive selftests that have been
developed as part of this series.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230719140858.13224-4-daniel@iogearbox.net


Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>