powerpc/qspinlock: allow indefinite spinning on a preempted owner

Provide an option that holds off queueing indefinitely while the lock
owner is preempted. This could reduce queueing latencies for very
overcommitted vcpu situations.

This is disabled by default.

Signed-off-by: Nicholas Piggin <npiggin@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Ellerman <mpe@ellerman.id.au>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221126095932.1234527-16-npiggin@gmail.com